Best Days

By Kristin Bonham


best-daysI am writing this in my dark living room enjoying a quiet night with the soft glow from the Christmas tree lights.  My husband actually put our tree up this year and I have loved looking to see where he put my favorite ornaments. I have several but one of the gems for me is a stack of pancakes. It’s right in the front about halfway from the top and every time I look at the tree, I can’t help but see it first.


I bought it a few years ago because it takes me back to some very cherished memories. When our kids were growing up, we spent many family vacations camping.  One of our annual traditions was camping at Disney’s Fort Wilderness with our small group families.  Even long after our group stopped meeting regularly, we still camped together once a year.



Camping is bike rides, camp fires, late nights, pancakes, bacon, homemade donuts and chili.  We played kick ball with all the kids, roasted marshmallows, ran 1/2 marathons, worked puzzles and played games. But mostly, we talked.  We spent time catching up with each other like we couldn’t do when we were attached to life and work at home.  We challenged each other and prayed for each other.  Those were the best days.


As I reflect on 2016 and anticipate 2017, one thing I’m reminded of is that I can appreciate the past and the relationships formed there but I can’t live there today.  I can appreciate traditions and memories but if I try to hold on too tight to those traditions and memories, I will miss the new ones waiting to be formed.


I’ve taken a few mornings this week to think about what I want for 2017, what I am asking God for in the New Year.  I want to focus on the present and what God is doing today. I want to do hard things, the things I’ve been putting off, the things that scare me.  I want to take time to talk to people when the moment arises, I want to be flexible.  I want to connect with people like I did in those best days sitting around the camp site. I want more best days.


Reminiscing about those favorite memories has been so good for me this Christmas. I find they are pointing me to all the possibilities ahead. What are you looking forward to in 2017?


“Be alert, be present. I’m about to do something brand-new. It’s bursting out! Don’t you see it?
There it is! I’m making a road through the desert, rivers in the badlands.”
Isaiah 43:19






Where I Find Rest

By Sue Nichols



“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28

It is Christmas time! Are you feeling the hustle and bustle? Lately, have you had any conversations revolving around how fast life is passing by, how busy you feel or how tired you are? I feel like most women can relate to having so many things to do on our plate. In fact, I’ve been surprised about some of the conversations I’ve had lately with women, of all generations, giving me the same sentiments. To be honest, I’ve been trying to decrease the busyness in my life for years.


The other day, I realized that God was asking me to give up something that I love to do. He was asking me to stop making jewelry. I was having a hard time wrapping my mind around doing what He was asking me to do. God gave me the inspiration to begin this business and the extra money was nice. Why would He ask me to give up something that means so much to me? I decided not to listen to Him.


Then, I found myself in a situation of “beyond busyness.” The kind of busyness that takes your focus completely off of God. The kind of busyness that is so distracting you can only focus on the task at hand. The kind of busyness that shows you, when you take a step back, that you’re letting important pieces of your life fall by the wayside…like your family. The kind of busyness that sucks the joy and happiness out of your life.


where-i-find-restThe moment I saw this, my heart completely sank. I did not want to live this way! I realized God was asking me to trust Him. I was praying for Him to help me decrease the busyness and I was not listening to Him. He was not asking me to give up my jewelry forever. It just is not the right season. This busyness becomes a burden on me and my family and leaves me tired and weary in the end.


Today, I have a profound peace to lay down my jewelry making in this season of my life. Actually, I feel an excitement of how He will continue to guide me.  I believe God does not want us running around in the distracting, tiresome busyness most of the world lives in. We can trust in God’s timing. When we seek His guidance and council which may mean we stop doing something we love to do, he gives us what we have been searching for.


I am praying that God shows me other ways to decrease the busyness and increase peace, joy and laughter in my life.


January is Coming

By Kristin Bonham



beautiful-teamThe Beautiful Team meets once a month for connection, prayer and to talk about the ministry.  This group consists amazing women who lead women’s ministry at GFC at all our campuses… high capacity women who are wearing many hats. Each one is unique in personality and I always look forward to this meeting for the fellowship and opportunity to learn.


We usually start with everyone sharing what’s going on in their world personally and in ministry.  Last week, the common theme was the wrapping things up and taking time to rest and recharge over Christmas.


There was also a sense of urgency with January coming and wanting to make sure things were set up to hit the ground running. We all find ourselves in a ‘hurry up, get everything done, get answers, so we can rest’ mode!  Can you relate?


As we went around the table that day, some key things resonated with us and we all agreed that if we are feeling this way, many other women must be too.  How do we as women really rest?  How can we be fully present with our family and friends during this very special time of the year?  We came up with this collective list of ideas to be intentional.


  • Journal – Take some time to journal about what the last 3 months have been. Or maybe even 2016 as a whole. Write about the highs and lows, the victories and sorrows.  Ask God to show you all that He has done and how He is working all things together.


  • Time Out – Put your phone, computer, tablet, etc in time out! It’s hard for me to be fully present when my phone is buzzing or I’m checking emails and social media at any given time during the day.  If possible, leave your phone alone for a designated time during the day.  See what happens!  Two things that have helped me are changing my text notifications to “message from _________” rather than a preview of the message itself and changing my email settings so that “fetch new data” is off.  I still answer my texts and emails but this is a huge help for me to stay present as much as possible.



  • Focus – On Jesus. He is our Savior. He is our Hope. He is the reason for celebrating. Here are some key Bible verses to help:

Luke 1:26-38

Luke 1:46-56

Luke 2:1-20

Isaiah 9:6


The fact is, January is coming whether we rest or not.  January is coming whether we slow down and enjoy family and friends this Christmas or not. January is coming with all its possibilities and opportunities!  Let’s decide to slow down, focus on and enjoy the people in our lives during this Christmas season.


What are some intentional things you do to help you stay focused during Christmas?


Great Expectations

By Dawn Smiling



The angel, Gabriel, went to Nazareth to visit a virgin named Mary and declared “Greetings, you are highly favored! The Lord is with you.” Mary was troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. The Angel said to her, “Mary do not be afraid, you have found favor with God. You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High.” Mary asked “how will this be since I am a virgin?” The angel answered “the Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you.”


great-expectationsMary’s response to Gabriel is priceless as she says “I am the Lord’s servant, may your word to me be fulfilled.” Then the angel left her.


I am moved by this conversation between Mary and the Angel, Gabriel because this has been a year of great expectation for me. I have experienced ups and downs this year that forced me to believe God before I could see the outcome. I found it very painful and it felt like I was actually giving birth with real contractions. It takes faith over fear to believe God for the outcome before the manifestation appears. To believe God for healing while you are still in pain. To believe God to deliver a family member who is still in bondage.


As we celebrate the birth of our Savior, Jesus, we can learn from Mary’s example and her response to God when things did not make sense. You may feel troubled in your state of expectancy, but don’t remain in that place. Psalms 56:3 tells us “when I am afraid, I put my trust in you.” Remind yourself that you are favored just as Mary is and as a child of God, no opportunity that God has prepared for you will pass you by.


As the angel advised Mary to name her expectation Jesus, your faith requires you to name your expectations. As the Holy Spirit gives you courage to move in faith towards your dreams, goals and desires, it’s okay to tell God you feel unprepared for your experience.  Be encouraged to take the response of Mary.


To live a life of great expectation is to believe that God will allow you to see guidance for your children, health for your family, and prosperity in your finances. To see the end at the beginning knowing God will honor your faith. Expect it!


Enjoy this season of celebration expecting miracles for those you love.  Extend an invitation to those who still have not met our Savior, Jesus Christ, with great expectation.


What are your great expectations?

In Focus

By Madelyn Littles



Can you believe that the Christmas season is upon us again? I certainly can’t. 2016 has gone by in an absolute blur. I’m absolutely thrilled to celebrate the birth of Jesus, but sometimes the joy of the season can get cancelled out by the craziness that inevitably manifests during this time of year. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by holiday preparations that pile up in addition to all of the daily responsibilities calling my name. Sometimes I feel like everything is moving in fast-forward and I’m stuck on pause.


I’ve been feeling run down lately, a little overwrought, and definitely striving for balance. But the one thing that I’ve been trying to be very intentional about is looking to God, first and foremost, and seeking him through, around, and above the chaos. In the hardest moments, the moments where I can feel myself hanging by my last thread, I’ve started saying a simple, “Thank you, God.” But don’t be mistaken – the feeling behind those three simple words goes much deeper.


I thank Him for that specific moment. I thank Him for the current challenge, and for the growth in my faith that will surely result from it. I thank Him for the reminder to turn my face to Him – and ultimately for the knowledge that He holds this moment, no matter how imperfect, ugly, or challenging it may be.


“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30



in-focusI’m finding that these moments are the most incredibly blessed moments. When I’m at my ugliest, my most fickle, my most stressed – its in these moments, if I just remember to turn my focus to Him, I’m better able recognize the blessings that aren’t so obvious, the moments He has ordained for me to recognize that He is good, no matter what my circumstances might be.


How incredible is it to know that we have a Sovereign Lord who not only knows us and loves through our craziness, but that He knew these moments would happen to us before we were even born – and he loves us anyway!


My goal during this season is to spend more time intentionally reading and meditating on His word, and steeping myself in His truth. There will always be crazy seasons in our lives, but if we can just thank him for those challenging moments, for the opportunity to focus on Him and His incredible love and mercy for us, then our entire perspective will shift and the craziness might seem less crazy after all.


Will you join me this week in focusing on God – especially in the most difficult moments – to recognize when He is blessing you?